Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Life takes Gift Baskets by the seasons


Autumn is a nice time of the year to make a new gift basket. Since it's harvest time for apples we have decided to introduce many variations of apples. Our container for this basket is an old looking bushel basket. We packed it with caramel apple popcorn, sunflower seeds with dried apples and caramel bit in a snack mix assortment, cranberry cheddar cheese and apple cider just to record a few of the  great tasting goodies. The naming of these seasonal offering is always cool so we came up with our Thanksgiving gift basket and our Autumn Gourmet Gift Basket.
So you ask yourself why would I order gourmet gift basket and to whom would I send it? I would advocate sending one as a birthday gift basket, anniversary gift basket, corporate thank you gift or even as a condolence gift or a bereavement gift basket as a replacement for flowers. These seasonal foods are great for celebrating the season.  
Our goal is to have a new gift basket on our web site at least ever other week so come back often to check us out.  Some stay on for a long time and some just come and go like the seasons. Some baskets are designed by the season some by holidays and others by great tasting new product introductions.

http://www.basketsbyrita.com

Monday, August 10, 2009

Funeral gift Etiquette





When you're informed that someone has passed away, your first instinct is to send a gift to the deceased’s family in their time of grief, but make sure you know and follow proper funeral gift etiquette. You can present a variety of gifts to the grieving family that will ease their suffering and send the message that your thoughts are with them in their time of hardship.




Flowers: The most common funeral gift is flowers. Before you send any, find out if there are certain conditions for funeral flowers depending on the religious affiliation of the deceased. For example, Jewish funeral traditions don’t incorporate flowers, and other gifts are considered more appropriate. Others, such as Hindus or Muslims, don’t consider funeral flowers as traditional, but the gesture may be seen as thoughtful by certain groups. Funeral flowers for a Catholic, LDS or Buddhist funeral are appropriate and welcomed. Consult a florist if you have any doubts, they will be well versed in different traditions for funerals.




Food: Perhaps the most welcome gift during a time of mourning is that of food. Whether you have meals delivered or drop by with a casserole, the message is that you are considerate of the family’s loss. However, be sensitive about intruding on the family’s time when delivering the gift. A brief visit of about 15 minutes is appropriate to deliver the food and express condolences. Proper funeral gift etiquette for food is to items that require little preparation, such as a sympathy gift basket or a comfort food gift basket. Even if you think that many people will bring food, your gift basket will last of several weeks without being opened since all the items are shelf stable.




Gifts to Charity: Memorial gifts are a popular tradition that allows money that would normally be spent on expensive floral arrangements to be designated for a specific organization, charity or event. Generally, the family will announce a preferred charity in the funeral announcement and request donations in lieu of flowers. Don’t breach funeral gift etiquette by sending flowers if the family has specifically asked not to. If you choose to make a charitable donation, be sure to supply the organization with the family name and address so they can send notification of the donation. These notifications usually don’t reveal the amount of the donation, just that it was made by you on behalf of the deceased.




After the Funeral: Funeral gift etiquette also allows friends and family members to send a fruit and cheese gift basket in the days and years following a funeral. A sincere card or memento on the anniversary of the funeral sends the message that you care about family members and remember their loss. Even following up with family members a few weeks after the funeral with a meal or a potted plant can have a big impact on the grieving heart.




Funeral gift etiquette suggests that family members send a thank you card for the gifts or services they received during a time of mourning, don’t be offended if you don’t receive one at all or if it arrives several weeks or months after the funeral. When someone is dealing with grief, time can slip by quickly.