We went to a wedding Thinking I'd just go to their wedding registry but they chose not to register anywhere. That meant just putting money into an envelope. Does anybody else feel a bit bizarre about that sometimes? First of all, I'm always second-guessing how much money and secondly, I know what I do when I get cash as a gift item. I just put it in my pocketbook and end up spending it at the grocery store or the parking garage. 
True--maybe they could use it to buy gas for the car. I don't want to do that any more. I have a couple wedding presents I still use and think of the people who gave them every single time I use them. But I don't know the tastes of this couple well enough--I called her mom and found out they love to go to the local park for picnics with a basket of wine and cheese. Problem solved! I found a great wine basket at Baskets by Rita and called to ask if they'd help me personalize a couple items. They were so nice and helpful. No, I talked to the real person, not somebody in a foreign country, who was going to put the basket together for me. The baskets are not mass produced and sitting on a shelf. They make them individually after they get the order. The wedding invitation was covered with sunflowers and the wedding was at a site with a sunflower background. I requested the basket contents and ribbon include the bright sunflower yellow color. I had it delivered to my house and I was so excited! It was cool--when we arrived at the wedding, there were only plain enveloped on the gift table--the Wine Basket made a huge impression did I ever get a huge bling for my money. It definitely made an impression. From now on, I'm walking into birthday parties, anniversaries, etc. with a basket. http://www.basketsbyrita.com
